Many people wonder with the loud outcry from LGBT group, where are the transgender women? You may often hear them online and social media, but you can hardly find them in real life where ever you go. With so many people interested in having a ts dating relationship, I got so many questions from my friends asking where are other people of my kind. As a transgender MTF. Even myself do not have so many cisgender friends beside from my family and friends who have known me before my transition. They are my world, because they haven’t left many. Transition helped me screen out many friends that will not be there for me. That is also the top reason why we transgender people choose to live a low-key life. But there was a moment for me to decide never reveal myself in front of people.
I still remember it very clearly. It was after I went through my surgery for half a year. I looked just like any other cisgender women, no difference. I felt loved and cared by many gentlemen who do not know my sexual identity. I was so sunk into the real-life dream which I dreamed for over decades. Since I have no difference from the outlook, I thought it would be okay for me to tell them my identity and experience. They wouldn’t mind. That was how I thought, but it turned out that I was too naive. Find transgender kik here.
My friends and I went out on a double date with another two gentlemen, which proved they were not what they seemed to be later.
We met on a dating app. He said he had a friend who are also single, so I thought it would be great to take my friends with me for his friend. We met up in a restaurant and we talked a lot, about our life, career, family, friends, dream, etc. We hit it off very quickly. I got this feeling that I was invited to his house this evening, so I thought it would be a good idea to tell him the true sexual identity about me. My friend was there for me, even if he freaked out. It turned out I made the right choice to tell him when we were still together.
The words came out “There is something you should know about me. I am a transgender male to female. I already had the gender reassignment surgery, so it’s technically the same as other women you’ve ever been with.” During the whole process, he stared at me with his eyeballs nearly popped out. He screamed out loud “Are you kidding? You are a ladyboy? What a freak you are! You should have told me you are a man before we coming out. I’s just a waste of time!” There are some other shitty words he said that cannot be written down here.
Since then, before I went out with people, I would tell them about my sexual identity. If they accept, then we go out. If not, that’s the end.